While this may be a hard reality to accept, continuing on with this relationship will bring nothing positive to either of you. In a love reading, the Four of Cups appears as a warning that your relationship is losing its magic. “When the Four of Cups appears, it is wise to examine opportunities that come your way - especially in the area of love and relationships - but it is likely that you have a good reason to reject them,” Lytle explains. It’s possible these opportunities simply hold no interest for you, or that you’re feeling overwhelmed by what you already have on your plate. However, you’re constantly turning them away. This card in the upright position is a sign of new opportunities flowing in your direction. As such, the life of someone represented by the Four of Cups often lacks excitement and happiness. These people typically take things for granted, often missing the point of what could and should be valuable experiences. “A magical hand offers a golden cup to the figure on the card, but it is clear that they want nothing to do with it.”
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“This card is full of resistance,” says Lori Lytle of Inner Goddess Tarot. This is someone who lacks the motivation to pursue happiness, resulting in missed opportunities that would otherwise fulfill their needs and desires. The Four of Cups as a person is dissatisfied with their current state of being. His deep state of meditation prevents him from noticing or caring about these offerings. On the ground directly in front of him lie three gold cups, while another is held in the air next to him by a floating hand. Despite his fertile, calm surroundings, his expression is glum. In the Rider-Waite deck the Four of Cups depicts a man sitting in contemplation under a tree at the top of a mountain. Usually, the best lovers are also faithful friends and trustworthy partners.Seize your chance Visual Elements and Symbolism Keep in mind, however, that lasting, loving relationships meet a broad spectrum of needs. Is it based on “chemistry” alone? Physical attraction is a good start. When reversed, the Knight of Cups also suggests that you need to look more closely at the dynamics of your relationship. That’s exactly what manipulators count on! The good news is that you can take your power back any time you want. Believe it or not, many people actually fear their own power, because they’ve grown up with a false sense of modesty. Admitting that you are lacking something important may make you feel smaller and weaker than you think you are.
Maybe you’re afraid to acknowledge that need. You just don’t know how else to fill that void inside you. Instead, he or she is playing on your emotional needs. That would be much too obvious, making it too easy for you to say no. This person is not trying to dazzle you with some pie-in-the-sky scheme. Someone in your life may not have your best interest in mind, and he or she is being rather sneaky about it. What’s worse, they have a special talent for making you ignore your inner alarm bells – no matter how loud they are ringing.
That’s why they’re so good at getting you to do what they want. Manipulators tend to have a better idea of what makes you tick than you.
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